Dating a guy with trust issues
But what happens when you actually find someone that takes you seriously, that says all of the right things, that actually gives a crap about your bad day without the conversation leading to some quip about coming over to “Make it better?
” What happens when you need to be vulnerable when you’ve been navigating the dating world with an Iron Man suit around your heart?
However sometimes, this kind of rejection – especially when it occurs in childhood or in impressionable years – can lead to chronic as well as intense feelings of insecurity and isolation, which make relationships problematic.
Love is pretty predictable to start with, isn’t it?
There are just two paths you can take when you enter a romantic relationship and get past the infatuation stage. Or you can find yourself frustrated and heartbroken.
And if you do get a chance to communicate with someone, you get random texts like, “You kno I’m feelin’ u gurl. I can be just like yur sex toy or something.” This was an actual text message I received from a guy I exchanged numbers with while waiting in line for Chinese food.
I read it when I got home and wondered what it was about my gym outfit and egg foo young that made this guy think, “She’s going.” Needless to say, dating is a little harder now than the movies have led us to believe.Having a guarded heart makes getting close to someone quite the struggle.